Francis "Frank" Steven Rutkowski

Francis “Frank” Steven Rutkowski, 84, of Manahawkin, NJ, passed away peacefully on January 18, 2026.

Born in Paterson, NJ, on November 17, 1941, Frank was the eldest son of the late Frank and Alice (Smith) Rutkowski. He was a patriotic man that proudly served our country in the United States Navy receiving an honorable discharge in 1965 after 2 years of active duty on the USS Valley Forge (LPH-8) in1961.

Frank built a respected 40 plus-year career in HVAC, known for his strong work ethic, technical skill, and reliability. He was especially proud of his work as co-owner of AST Mechanical, where he formed lasting friendships and earned the trust of countless customers and colleagues. His dedication to his craft was matched only by his commitment to treating people with fairness, kindness, and integrity.

Frank was deeply involved in Freemasonry and its affiliated bodies. He was raised as a Master Mason on January 18, 2000, and was active in the York Rite, including the Knights Templar. He later served with distinction as Grand Master of the Most Puissant Grand Council of Royal & Select Masters of the State of New Jersey, reflecting his strong sense of leadership and brotherhood. Frank also brought joy to many through his work as a Shrine Clown, spreading laughter at parades, community gatherings, and charitable events.

Frank shared 56 years of marriage with his beloved wife, Marilyn Rutkowski, building a life rooted in love, humor, and unwavering devotion. He was a caring father to his daughter Cheryl Scheuerman and her late husband Robert Scheuerman and to his son Troy Rutkowski and daughter-in-law Julie. It was very important to Frank to raise his children in the church, instilling in them values of faith, compassion, and community that guided them throughout their lives.

He was a cherished grandfather to Kayla, Carly, and Alicia, who brought him immense pride and joy. He is also survived by his brother Gerald, one nephew, and many nieces, each holding a special place in his heart.

Frank was known for his good-natured sense of humor and loved to joke around, bringing laughter to family gatherings and everyday moments. Above all, he was a kind and caring person, always ready to help, support, or brighten someone’s day.

Frank’s quiet strength, warmth, and unwavering loyalty to his family, friends, and fraternal brothers leave an enduring legacy. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered.

A memorial service will be held at Grace Calvary Church, 1902 Long Beach Blvd., Ship Bottom, NJ, on March 21, 2026, at 11:30 AM.